The Conversation about the Art of Communication, Reelive

Marco
Marco

So what do you think? Is it worth it, talking to her?

Benigno
Benigno

Of course! You have to talk to her. She can hear you.

Marco
Marco

Really? You believe she hears me?

Benigno
Benigno

Yes! Communication is more than words.

Marco
Marco

But what if she never wakes up? Am I just talking to myself?

Benigno
Benigno

No, you’re connecting with her. It's important.

Marco
Marco

What do I even say?

Benigno
Benigno

Anything! Share your thoughts, your feelings.

Marco
Marco

And if she doesn’t respond?

Benigno
Benigno

It doesn’t matter. You are there for her.

The Surreal Truth about Love, Reelive

Marco
Marco

Do you think we love them, or do we just love the idea of them?

Benigno
Benigno

What’s the difference?

Marco
Marco

Loving a person makes it real; loving an idea makes it a fantasy.

Benigno
Benigno

But isn’t fantasy just another form of love?

Marco
Marco

Maybe... but it feels so distant.

Benigno
Benigno

Distance allows for imagination. Imagination can nurture love.

Marco
Marco

Nurture? Or suffocate?

Benigno
Benigno

It’s all about how you see it.

Exploring the Nature of Care, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

People think care is easy.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

It’s not. It demands everything.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

You understand, don’t you? It’s about being there.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

Every moment counts. You can’t take it lightly.

The Dilemma of Choice, Reelive

Marco
Marco

What if we’re making the wrong choices?

Benigno
Benigno

Every choice comes with risk. It’s what we do.

Marco
Marco

Are we really helping them?

Benigno
Benigno

Yes. Every day we try.

Marco
Marco

But what if it’s not enough?

Benigno
Benigno

It’s never enough, but we can’t stop trying.

Facing Reality, Reelive

Marco
Marco

Sometimes I wonder if this is it for us.

Benigno
Benigno

This is only part of the story.

Marco
Marco

Do you really believe that?

Benigno
Benigno

Yes, life has twists we can’t predict.

Marco
Marco

But what if it’s all just a waiting game?

Benigno
Benigno

Then we wait with purpose.

In the Silence, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

You know, silence can be the loudest sound.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

It’s terrifying sometimes, but it’s where I find you.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I need you to know I care… that you're not alone.

Understanding Depths of Emotion, Reelive

Marco
Marco

I’m scared of everything… what if I lose her?

Benigno
Benigno

You won’t lose her as long as you hold onto her spirit.

Marco
Marco

But how do I do that?

Benigno
Benigno

Through love and memory. Keep her alive in your heart.

Marco
Marco

What if my heart breaks?

Benigno
Benigno

Then it will heal. That’s how we grow.

The Cycle of Life, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Life is a cycle, Marco.

Marco
Marco

A never-ending loop?

Benigno
Benigno

Yes. We care for one another in our darkest moments.

Marco
Marco

But is it really fulfilling?

Benigno
Benigno

Fulfillment is what we make of it.

Language and Silence, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Language is only a tool. Silence speaks volumes.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

In silence, I hear your heart.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

That’s where our true bond lies.

The Search for Connection, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

You know, even the smallest moments matter.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I crave the connection we share.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

You make me feel less alone.

Navigating Pain and Love, Reelive

Marco
Marco

How do we separate love from pain?

Benigno
Benigno

They are part of the same fabric of feeling.

Marco
Marco

But it hurts too much.

Benigno
Benigno

Sometimes pain teaches us how to love.

Marco
Marco

Is it worth that price?

Benigno
Benigno

It is, if it leads to greater understanding.

The Essence of Being, Reelive

Marco
Marco

What does it mean to truly exist for someone?

Benigno
Benigno

It's about being present, understanding their essence.

Marco
Marco

Then what is presence without acknowledgment?

Benigno
Benigno

Acknowledgment comes in many forms.

Marco
Marco

But is that enough?

Benigno
Benigno

For some, it is the most they can hope for.

Exploring Intimacy, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Intimacy is more than touch. It’s spiritual.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I feel your spirit even now.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

It’s a connection that transcends.

The Weight of Responsibility, Reelive

Marco
Marco

This weight is unbearable.

Benigno
Benigno

It’s our duty, Marco.

Marco
Marco

But at what cost to us?

Benigno
Benigno

We sacrifice for those we love.

Marco
Marco

I don’t know if I can keep going.

Benigno
Benigno

We only stop if we let go.

The Vulnerability of Love, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Love makes us feel vulnerable.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

It’s terrifying, yet beautiful.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I’d never trade that fear for anything.

Facing the Future, Reelive

Marco
Marco

What hope is there for us?

Benigno
Benigno

Every moment is a new beginning.

Marco
Marco

But what if it’s just more of the same?

Benigno
Benigno

Then we learn and adapt.

Marco
Marco

Isn’t that exhausting?

Benigno
Benigno

It’s part of living. We embrace it.

The Philosophy of Being Present, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Being present is my greatest gift to you.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

Every second we share is a treasure.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I’ll cherish our moments always.

Coping with Loss, Reelive

Marco
Marco

What happens if we lose them?

Benigno
Benigno

Then we carry their memory with us.

Marco
Marco

But it will hurt.

Benigno
Benigno

Pain is part of love.

Marco
Marco

Will we ever heal?

Benigno
Benigno

Over time, yes. We honor them by living.

The Art of Waiting, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

Waiting is an art form.

Marco
Marco

How can you say that?

Benigno
Benigno

It requires patience, commitment.

Marco
Marco

But isn’t it just suffering?

Benigno
Benigno

No, it’s a testament to love.

Rediscovering Presence, Reelive

Benigno
Benigno

You know, being here with you feels right.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

It’s the presence that matters most.

Alicia
Alicia

...

Benigno
Benigno

I won’t take that for granted.

Benigno

You have to treat women as if they were a work of art.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

In love, one can only communicate the truth through the body.

Marco

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Benigno

I don't want to be a smothering presence in her life. I want to be part of her world.

Benigno

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Marco

When two people meet, or if they have a chance, there’s such a joy in being face to face.

Marco

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Benigno

Desiring some distance is a form of love too.

Benigno

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Marco

Love is not just being there. It’s understanding the silence.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

I can’t help but feel that our encounters are a dance.

Benigno

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Benigno

Caring is a big responsibility, but also a privilege.

Benigno

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Marco

There’s a line between love and obsession, but we often cross it unknowingly.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

I speak to her even if she can't hear me. It's a way to keep her alive.

Benigno

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Marco

Sometimes, love means just standing still.

Marco

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Benigno

When you find someone you love, you must hold on tightly, even if it hurts.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

We all have our own battles, and at times, love is the only armor we have.

Marco

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Benigno

In the silence, I hear her soul speak.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

Life is a continuing dialogue, even when one is silent.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

Love demands patience—most people forget that.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

The body remembers even what the mind forgets.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

I know what love is—I’ve lived it, even if she doesn’t know.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

The vulnerability of being alive is the greatest gift—treasure it.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

Sometimes healing comes in unexpected forms.

Benigno

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Marco

To listen is to understand; to understand is to love.

Marco

Talk to Her, Reelive
Benigno

Every encounter is a chance for transformation.

Benigno

Talk to Her, Reelive
Marco

Love requires both surrender and strength.

Marco

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La Violetera

La Violetera by Carlos Gardel, Heard in the background during a scene at the hospital

Granada

Granada by Agustín Lara, Played during the poignant moments between the characters

Hallelujah

Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen, Used in a significant emotional scene

Alfonsina y el Mar

Alfonsina y el Mar by Mercedes Sosa, Played during the concluding scenes


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The Dance of the Silent

This scene takes place when Marco first dances with Alicia, who is in a coma. The build-up occurs throughout the film as Marco develops a unique bond with her, treating her not just as a patient but as a person. The most emotional moment happens when he takes her hand, plays music, and starts moving gently, imagining her dancing back. The visuals are profoundly poignant, showcasing his deep longing and connection. In the aftermath, this scene illustrates the themes of communication beyond words and the beauty of human connection in life's fragility.

Context: Marco has been caring for Alicia, and this scene symbolizes his hope and the depth of his feelings for her.

Benigno's Confession

In a raw moment, Benigno reveals his feelings for Alicia during a conversation with Marco. The build-up stems from his obsessive care for her and the dark secrets he's kept hidden. At this point, he admits how he sees Alicia as a perfect being, leading to a shocking realization about his motivations. The emotional weight is heavy, and it changes how the audience perceives his character. In the aftermath, this confession complicates the viewer's feelings toward him, raising moral questions.

Context: Benigno's obsession with Alicia has been apparent, and his confession makes viewers reassess his character's complexity.

The Hospital Room Moment

This scene has two characters—Marco and Alicia—interacting, although Alicia is in a coma. The buildup occurs from Marco’s constant vigil at her bedside and his desire to communicate with her. The pivotal moment comes when Marco starts narrating stories about his life, sharing intimate details as if she can hear him. The visuals of him speaking tenderly beside her evoke a profound sense of loneliness and hope. Afterward, it shows how Marco's love transcends her physical state, emphasizing communication's importance.

Context: Marco’s devotion to Alicia shows the depth of love and the longing for connection we all experience.

The Moment of Truth

Near the end, after a series of complex events and emotional turmoil, Marco learns the truth about Alicia’s condition. The built-up tension from the previous twists and turns makes this moment intense. The powerful visuals of Marco's reaction, combined with silence, emphasize the agony of newfound knowledge. This moment deeply impacts Marco's decisions moving forward, revealing how tragedy can redefine one’s understanding of love and sacrifice.

Context: This moment serves as the climax of Marco's journey, forcing him to confront reality and his feelings.

Benigno’s Dream

Benigno dreams about a life with Alicia, illustrating his inner thoughts and feelings. The dream has surreal visuals that contrast sharply with the harsh reality he faces. This moment is pivotal as it exposes his delusions and desires for an ideal life that doesn’t exist. It ultimately reflects the theme of unfulfilled dreams and the tragic consequences of unchecked obsession.

Context: Benigno's fantasies reveal his psychological state and provide a deeper understanding of his character.

The Art of Communication

A critical moment arises when Marco meets a performance artist who demonstrates the power of non-verbal expression, inspiring him. The build-up leads Marco to question his approach to caring for Alicia. The moment of realization, shown through art and movement, highlights the theme of communication beyond verbal interaction. This further shapes Marco's understanding of love and connection, leading to key decisions later.

Context: This meeting reinforces the idea that connection can exist in many forms, beyond words.

Alicia’s Past

In a series of flashbacks, Alicia's life before her coma is revealed. These moments build emotional depth as we see her as a vibrant individual. The pivotal moment comes when we witness her passion for dance and life, contrasting sharply with her current state. This revelation shifts the audience's perspective on her character and heightens the stakes for Marco’s commitment to her.

Context: Understanding Alicia's past helps the audience connect with her more profoundly, enhancing the tragedy of her circumstances.

The Power of Touch

During a moment of intimacy, Marco touches Alicia’s hand, and the silence becomes powerful. The build-up has been created through their ongoing connection despite the coma. The pivotal moment centers on the simple yet profound gesture, showing that loving someone isn’t about verbal communication. This scene underscores the importance of physical presence and affection.

Context: The moment highlights the film’s theme that love can transcend even the deepest barriers.

The Moment of Release

In an emotionally charged scene, Marco decides to let Alicia go after a long struggle. The tension peaks as he realizes that holding on may not be what she would want. The visuals of him crying while holding her hand create a heartbreaking contrast with his previous hope. This aftermath changes Marco’s character, illustrating personal growth and profound love.

Context: This represents a turning point for Marco, as he learns to prioritize Alicia's well-being over his desires.

An Unexpected Encounter

Marco runs into Benigno at a moment of vulnerability. Their exchange builds tension as the truth of their situations starts to unfold. The pivotal moment arrives when they confront each other about their feelings for Alicia, which sheds light on their conflicting motivations. This scene adds layers to both characters, leading to crucial developments that affect the story's outcome.

Context: Their confrontation reveals the different ways they love and care for Alicia, complicating the narrative.

The Hospital Goodbye

Marco says goodbye to Alicia with a heavy heart, reflecting their journey together. The emotional build-up stems from their shared moments and unfulfilled dreams. The pivotal moment is when Marco acknowledges her presence, even in silence, promising to carry her memory. This farewell deeply impacts Marco and inspires the audience's understanding of love’s endurance.

Context: This farewell encapsulates the theme of love enduring even in the face of loss.

Unmasking the Truth

Benigno finally faces the consequences of his actions, revealing the truth about his obsession with Alicia. The build-up revolves around the secrets he’s kept, leading to a shocking climax. This moment is marked by stark imagery and devastating honesty. The impact of this scene shapes the audience's perception of obsession and morality.

Context: This unmasking forces audiences to confront uncomfortable truths about love and possession.

The Art of Healing

Marco returns to his work as a performance artist, reinterpreting his experiences with Alicia. The build-up highlights his internal struggle to find meaning. The pivotal moment occurs when he expresses his grief through art. The visuals create catharsis, emphasizing how art can be a powerful tool for healing. It reshapes his character and allows the audience to reflect on loss.

Context: This scene represents Marco's growth and the idea that healing can come through creativity.

The Final Dance

In a breathtaking finale, Marco dances alone, recalling the moments he shared with Alicia. This scene builds with emotion as he embodies their connection through movement. The climax hits harder as the dance reflects both joy and sorrow. It encapsulates the film's themes of love, loss, and memory, remaining a powerful image in the audience’s heart.

Context: This final dance symbolizes both an ending and a celebration of what was shared.

Confrontation with Reality

A critical dialogue takes place between Marco and his friend about the complexities of love and loss. The build-up involves Marco grappling with his feelings and the harsh truths of Alicia's condition. The pivotal moment centers on the friend’s suggestion that love can take many forms, urging Marco to reconsider his notions. This conversation deeply influences Marco's outlook and decisions.

Context: It challenges conventional views on love, adding complexity to Marco’s journey.

The Meaning of Silence

Marco pensively reflects on his experiences with Alicia in a quiet moment. The build-up shows his internal conflict as he struggles with feelings of guilt and love. The pivotal moment reveals his realization that silence can hold as much meaning as words. This contemplation shapes his understanding of their relationship.

Context: It emphasizes the theme that communication isn’t solely about speaking but also about understanding.

The Last Visit

In a heart-wrenching farewell, Marco visits Alicia one last time before moving on. The emotional build-up comes from their shared history and his internal struggle. The moment captures his sorrow as he recalls their best memories. The aftermath brings closure for Marco, marking a significant point in his character development.

Context: This visit is crucial for Marco to find peace, reflecting the film's exploration of love and letting go.

The Conflicted Heart

A pivotal argument between Marco and Benigno unveils their contrasting views on love and care. The build-up intensifies as both men confront their motives and feelings. The moment is charged with emotion, leading to a realization about obsession versus genuine love. The impact resonates throughout the film’s narrative, showcasing the moral complexities of their relationships.

Context: This conflict adds depth to their characters, highlighting the fine line between love and obsession.

Healing Through Acceptance

Marco begins to accept Alicia’s condition, portrayed through a touching sequence where he revisits their past. The build-up reflects his internal struggle to move on. The climax depicts him letting go of his hope for her recovery, embracing the memories fondly instead. This scene marks a turning point for Marco, highlighting acceptance and healing.

Context: Acceptance plays a fundamental role in the film, teaching viewers about love’s enduring nature.

Echoes of the Past

Flashbacks of Marco and Alicia's happier moments play side by side with his current reality. The build-up showcases their vibrant life before her coma. The pivotal moment occurs when reality clashes with memory, emphasizing how past joy can linger in sorrow. This juxtaposition enriches the emotional depth of the film, showcasing the complexities of human relationships.

Context: This scene enhances the viewer’s understanding of how past love influences the present.

The Final Connection

In a moving and symbolic finale, Marco holds Alicia’s hand one last time as he whispers his goodbyes. The build-up through their journey culminates in this moment of unity. The emotional weight is palpable, filled with love, loss, and the hope of connection transcending the physical realm. This powerful farewell leaves a lasting impression on viewers.

Context: It encapsulates the film's themes about love, loss, and the enduring connection between souls.


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The Unconventional Story Structure

The film employs a non-linear narrative structure, focusing on multiple characters' perspectives and experiences, which was a departure from traditional storytelling.

Why it matters: This narrative choice allows for a deeper exploration of themes such as communication and loneliness, enhancing the emotional weight of the film as audiences can interpret characters' actions and decisions in complex ways.

Catalina Sandino Moreno's Accidental Audition

Catalina Sandino Moreno was initially not auditioning for the role of the woman in a coma; she was reading lines for another character when Pedro Almodóvar decided she would be perfect for the part.

Why it matters: Her casting brought an authenticity to the role, enhancing the film’s emotional depth, as her performance conveyed vulnerability and strength despite minimal screen presence.

Almodóvar's Personal Touch

Pedro Almodóvar infused personal aspects of his life into the script, including themes of loneliness, love, and the complexities of human relationships.

Why it matters: This personal connection fosters a relatable atmosphere, making the film resonate with audiences who have experienced similar feelings, thus elevating its universal appeal.

The Dance Sequence at the Mental Hospital

The iconic dance sequence was choreographed by Almodóvar himself, integrating elements of surrealism and expressionism that he often employs in his films.

Why it matters: This scene visually crystallizes the themes of isolation and connection in a therapeutic setting, leaving a lasting impression that viewers can reference when discussing the film's emotional core.

The Use of Classical Music

The film features a significant amount of classical music, including pieces by composers like Joaquín Rodrigo, which enhances its emotional resonance.

Why it matters: The soundscape enriches the narrative atmosphere, amplifying pivotal moments and deepening audience empathy towards the characters' experiences, especially in scenes of introspection.

Filming Locations in Spain

Much of 'Talk to Her' was filmed in real locations across Spain, including the Madrid area, which adds an authentic cultural backdrop to the story.

Why it matters: These settings not only ground the film in a specific reality but also contribute to its aesthetic charm, enhancing audiences' investment in the characters' journeys.

Tilda Swinton's Voice Acting

Tilda Swinton, who provides a voice-over for one of the characters, recorded her lines in English despite the original film being in Spanish.

Why it matters: Her unique vocal delivery adds an ethereal quality to the character's portrayal, allowing a broader audience to connect with the film while maintaining its original essence.

The Creation of the Coma

To depict the coma realistically, the film used special effects and practical effects, ensuring that the portrayal of a coma was both artistic and believable.

Why it matters: This commitment to realism bolstered the audience's immersion in the narrative, fostering empathy and deepened engagement with the themes of communication.

Almodóvar's Signature Color Palette

The color scheme in 'Talk to Her' is notably vibrant, using reds and yellows that are characteristic of Almodóvar’s visual style.

Why it matters: This distinctive use of color enhances emotional moments, reinforcing themes such as love and passion, while also making key scenes visually striking and memorable.

Emotional Cinematography

The cinematographer, Javier Aguirresarobe, employed close-up shots to capture the nuances of the characters’ emotional states.

Why it matters: This technique enriches the audience's emotional connection to the characters, making their struggles and relationships feel more tangible and relatable.

The Role of Communication

A central theme of the film is communication across barriers; Almodóvar explores different forms of connection, including physical, emotional, and artistic expressions.

Why it matters: This thematic exploration invites viewers to reflect on their own relationships and communication styles, ultimately enhancing the film’s impact and relatability.

Challenging Gender Norms

The film subverts traditional gender roles, showcasing the vulnerability of male characters while elevating female experiences and perspectives.

Why it matters: This approach encourages a broader discussion around gender dynamics in relationships, making the film a poignant commentary on society’s expectations.

Experimental Techniques

Almodóvar incorporated experimental film techniques, such as dream sequences and symbolic visuals, to enhance the narrative's emotional depth.

Why it matters: These artistic choices create a surreal atmosphere that invites viewers to experience the characters' internal realities, fostering a unique viewing experience.

The Influence of Spanish Culture

Almodóvar's work is deeply rooted in Spanish culture and motifs, intertwining social commentary with the nuances of everyday life.

Why it matters: This cultural infusion creates a rich tapestry that adds layers of meaning, making the film feel authentic and nuanced for both native viewers and international audiences.

The Gender of the Narrator

The narration in the film is provided by a male character, altering the perception of the events and influencing how they are interpreted by audiences.

Why it matters: This choice challenges the viewer to question the reliability of the narrator and highlights the theme of perspective in storytelling, ultimately enhancing thematic complexity.

The Impact of Audience Reactions

After initial screenings, audience reactions influenced some of Almodóvar's editing choices, particularly in pacing and scene transitions.

Why it matters: This responsiveness to audience feedback illustrates the collaborative nature of filmmaking and shows how viewer interpretation can shape a film’s final form.

The Role of Dance

Dance is a recurring motif in the film, symbolizing communication and connection amidst silence and isolation.

Why it matters: This theme resonates throughout the narrative, allowing audiences to interpret key moments through a lens of movement and expression, enhancing emotional resonance.

The Use of Metaphorical Imagery

The film includes several instances of metaphorical imagery, like hospital scenes juxtaposed with dream sequences, representing the blurred lines between reality and perception.

Why it matters: These visual metaphors deepen understanding of the characters' internal conflicts and create a more engaging and thought-provoking viewing experience.

The Role of the Audience

Almodóvar invites viewers to actively engage with the film, encouraging them to draw their own interpretations of the characters' relationships.

Why it matters: This approach transforms the viewer's role from passive observer to active participant, leading to diverse interpretations and discussions about the film’s themes.

Pacing as a Storytelling Tool

The deliberately slow pacing of certain scenes allows audiences to fully absorb characters' emotional states and the gravity of their situations.

Why it matters: This choice amplifies tension and emotional impact, heightening audience engagement by making them feel the weight of the characters’ experiences.

Influence of Surrealism

Almodóvar's use of surrealism draws on influences from art and literature, blending them into the fabric of the film to explore complex themes.

Why it matters: This blend enriches the narrative, encouraging viewers to appreciate the artistic nuances while also inviting them to reflect on the deeper meanings behind the surreal elements.


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